Words Explanation
Basic explanation: a metaphor or a person who is active, it is easy to be embarrassed and accused.
Allusions
"Wood Show in Lin, the wind must destroy; pile up on the shore, the flourish, the row is higher than people, the public will not" "this sentence From the "Operations" of Wei Man Li Kang in Three Kingdoms. "Operations" made by Li Kang aims to explore the relationship between the national governance and the individual sources of the scholars. He emphasized that "Wood Show is in Lin, the wind must destroy it; piled out on the shore, there will be turbulent;" higher than people, the public will not ", but the prostitute" Drake ", the purpose is to"志 成 成 ". I don't want this to have become ancient evidence of Chinese people.
Comments
In a wood, if there is a tree that is too high, it highlights the other trees, the wind is scraped, it must be easier to destroy this highlight tree, warn People don't have too much in everyone, there are many winds, and it will be difficult to have been killed by external forces. However, in today's era, this originally derogatory sentence has also contains more positive significance. If you are a person who has a morality, you will open your personality, play your strength to the extreme, right Friends are harmless, harmless to society, even for the country, so wood show should also be advocated. The Chinese have a shortcoming, that is, paying too much attention to the public, not paying attention to the beneficial side of the own personality.
Reason
In life, there is often such a phenomenon. Some people see that people around them exceed them in some respects, and they can make a uncomfortable feeling. And there are some negative behavior. For example, others have awarded, buy stocks are so rich, they didn't get this "unexpected wealth", I can't help but complain, and even gave others, maliciously. This kind of behavior of "seeing others" is a manifestation of human taboating emotions and is also a more common social phenomenon.
In fact, there is a deeper thing, and the road to the development of new things in philosophy is the light of the twists and turns. At the same time, any excellent transcendence beyond behavior is to experience the hardship, which is also an inevitable process.
Contemporary meaning
The social meaning of this sentence means that in social life, it is often superior, and people who have achieved significant achievements are easy to be embarrassed, even hit, excluded, so Many people often choose to choose Mingzhe to protect themselves and don't want to be a gun. This phenomenon is indeed in real life, unavoidable, but this view itself has a piece, we must correctly understand and treat it.
First, we must see that natural phenomena cannot fully reflect all social facts. If every individual in all human beings is so considering, in the work, every body only Gu An Shou Ben, do not think about it, do not dare to innovate; when dangerous, no one dares to do beautiful wood, dare to take responsibility, Then human beings will not have progress, always in the backward state.
On the other hand, if Xihu is very show, it will not be in the wind storm, but also can protect the other trees in the woods, so Xiu Mu is worthy of our advice and belief. The country's economic development requires more such beautiful wood, and the development is growing. Since my country's reform and opening up, we will first develop the economy in the eastern coastal area, and the economic development of the eastern region has increased its financial and funding to the western part, drive the western economy through the eastern part, and promote the development of the great cause of the country.
In addition, we must clearly realize that the wooden show in Lin Feng may destroy, the pile is higher than the shore of the stream, but as long as we firmly, we are conscientious, struggle, you can Do it makes the wind, the big water is not rushing! Just as the Second World War II, it is because the Soviet Union has a strong military political economy foundation. The United States does not dare to make an idea of the Soviet Union. Mao Yi recommended to go out, a person must be very good, in order to resolutely stand in society, it will not be disconnected and will always be invincible.
As myself, in learning and work, I will work hard, constantly improve myself, strive to strive for good performance, dare to innovate, dare to take a big threshold, the model pioneer, and the unit, Social and national contributions. At the same time, we must drive other members, constantly develop and innovate, strive to be excellent, in the people, the country, and society, there must be a sense of responsibility, and be responsible.
This sentence reminds us from the side, is a person should be tolerant, it is necessary to include the mistakes of others, but more importantly, it is necessary to include the advantages of others, learn to understand your own grades. At the same time, we also remind us that when faceting opportunities, we must dare to innovate; in the face of danger, we must be responsible and dare to take. Only in this way can we become a talent useful to society and to the country.
Everything has two sides, so we must dialectively treat everything. We must be brave enough to make progress, dare to take responsibility, and strive to do excellent talents; at the same time, we must pay attention to grasp the sprite, do things can not be too sharp, and unite all parties, handle interpersonal relationships, advanced tape, we can become one Talents who are honored and loved, forever in the end of society.
Destruction wants
Psychologist believes that avoiding emotional feelings from the competition between people and people, the roots are not satisfied. In the face of "people are bad, people have no", the heart is not a taste, and the subconscious hope that hopes to accounted for someone else. When you can't occupy someone else, you will go to destroy someone else, try to pull others back to the same starting line as yourself. Avoid others often have frustration and 忿忿 忿忿 情, this kind of emotions are easy to infect each other, so they are easy to hold the group to deal with those good people. "Wood show in Lin, the wind must destroy" is this reason. It is a negative behavior, which is a negative behavior, which is harmful to people. Avoid others often use energy to confront, not developing, and ultimately they have to develop and progress, and harm others.
Psychological mechanism
Psychologist pointed out that the psychological basis of taboo and confrontation is the desire to occupy, not the desire to develop. Popularly, the desire of possession is to pay attention to how to take more share in a piece of cake, and the desire to develop is how to make a larger cake. Enjoyed thinking that people can get good self-worths and self-feeling as long as they have their own things, but in fact, this is not the case. Good people often belong to a very low self-evaluation. Avoid emotion is inevitable, but correctly understand your own jealous emotions, consciously avoid negative behavior can be done. Good people should regard the success of others, others' "good" as their spurs and challenges, from self-development, instead of trying to combat others to raise themselves.
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good caregiver should change your thinking and bad behavior. So, how do you have to protect yourself better? First of all, you have to take a jealousy, and I've been isolated as a successful by-product. If you are all, do you have anyone? As the saying: unmanned people are mediocre. In this way, I will not be anxious when I encounter my grievances, always keep a peaceful mentality. Second, don't try to fight with good people, you can't score, and you can't win the game. Third, encountering others to interfere with your work, don't worry about it, don't retaliate, tolerance and high posture will give you more scores.
The above method allows you to deal with the attack behavior of the jealousy manner in a rational manner, but the best response is to do better, the distance to the jealousy, this, others are taboo Transformation becomes admirable to you. Experts believe that if you are taboo, you don't have good enough! So, when we find that others are taboo, we should be happy in one side, because this proves that you are very good; on the other hand, don't forget to improve your own efforts. Remember to maintain humility, this is also a comfortable action for those who don't see you.
You are taboo because you are a leader, always run in front of others, if you fight against people or counterattack, then delay the time and speed of advancement, attackers may take advantage of more than one go. Therefore, the best way is, don't pay attention to the goal, just pulling the distance between the attacker, until he is not enough to give your shadow, there is no way to abandon the bow, the so-called "th". So, you will get more easily.